LOVE help?

hi im 23yrs old im indian my gf is russian we r in lov for 9 yrs but for past 3 yrs she is stayin in russia(she was in india).we r still in luv but she says dat she cannot leave russia for 8yrs due to political issue . now im devastd i want 2 marry her.but she says it is difficult . now she is cryin all the time . neither of us cant leave other .plss hlp me (we both luv each othr) im askin this question again